- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
- Relationship and family issues
About John
John Shafer is an LCSW (Licensed Clinical Social Worker) practicing in New York with 25 years of experience. He lists stress, anxiety, relationship and family concerns among his main areas of work. John also notes experience with trauma and abuse, depression, addictions, LGBT issues, grief, intimacy concerns, sleep problems, parenting stress, anger, self-esteem, career questions, bipolar disorder, ADHD, and other life changes.
John trained at Syracuse University School of Social Work and began clinical practice in 1998. Early work took him into rural community mental health, school-based settings, and services across city and suburban clinics. Those varied jobs exposed him to a wide range of ages and life situations, from young children through people in their nineties.
Over the years he broadened his experience with different socio-economic and cultural backgrounds. John pursued ongoing diversity training and adapted how he talked about gender identity and expression so it fit each person's cultural context. That background informs how he discusses relationship roles, expectations, and family-of-origin patterns in sessions.
In sessions he draws from several well known approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), client-centered work, mindfulness, narrative techniques, strengths-based ideas, and solution-focused methods. He uses those methods to help people clarify goals, practice new skills, and try out different ways of relating.
John has run individual sessions, group work, and couple work during his career. He describes his style as collaborative and client-centered, working with people to set practical goals and try changes that fit their daily life.
How his approaches translate to online work
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on clarifying personal values and taking committed steps toward those values. It pairs practical actions with acceptance skills to address anxiety, stress, and life transitions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and teaches concrete skills to change unhelpful patterns. CBT is often used for anxiety, depression, sleep problems, and anger. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) teaches emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal effectiveness skills useful for intense feelings and relationship struggles.Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to decide which methods best fit their goals and day-to-day life. That decision is revisited as goals change or new concerns appear.
The practical benefits of online work can include fitting sessions into a busy schedule, shorter check-ins when helpful, and avoiding travel time. The source biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm current session options before booking. Sessions aim to help people practice skills, adjust family-of-origin patterns, and test new ways of relating in ways that fit their routine.
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Experience
25+ years
Listed in
New York
Languages
English
Frequently asked questions
Which concerns does he address related to family patterns?
He works with people on family and relationship patterns, attachment issues, abandonment, blended family concerns, and parenting stress.
What is his therapeutic style?
He describes a collaborative, client-centered approach and uses practical techniques to test new behaviors and coping skills in daily life.
How much clinical experience does he have?
He has 25 years of clinical experience, beginning after a Master of Social Work from Syracuse University in 1998.
What credentials and location are listed?
He is an LCSW licensed in New York and practices in New York state.
Are sessions offered in other languages?
Sessions are offered in English.
Does he accept clients from other countries?
He does not accept international clients at this time.
How are sessions billed or paid for?
Cost varies with location; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What steps are required to begin working with him?
Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.
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