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Brandi Loudermilk

Brandi Loudermilk, LCMFT

Kansas

Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist - Relationships and Sex

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  • Stress and anxiety
  • Relationship problems
  • Sexual concerns

About Brandi

Brandi Loudermilk is a Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist (LCMFT) in Kansas with ten years of experience. She works with adults dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, intimacy and relationship concerns, and LGBTQ issues. The profile also notes attention to family of origin issues among her focus areas.

She commonly talks with people about sexual concerns, consensual non-monogamy, and BDSM or kink questions. Brandi also has experience supporting people navigating blended family issues, divorce and separation, and the ongoing effects of attachment or family patterns. She has worked with people who have co-occurring mental health conditions and first responder-related stress.

In sessions she uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques to help people notice patterns and try different ways of relating. Conversations often focus on practical skills for managing anxiety, improving communication, and clarifying intimacy needs. She aims to reduce confusion about relationship roles inherited from childhood and to help people set clearer boundaries.

Brandi’s approach is direct and practical. She helps clients identify small changes that can change ongoing dynamics. Sessions include talking through specific situations, practicing new responses, and checking what works in daily life.

Her background combines clinical training and ten years of practice in Kansas. She works in English and does not take international clients. To begin, people are asked to complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session through the online therapy options button.

How therapeutic approaches are used in online sessions

Brandi draws on evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on observable patterns and practical skills. One common method helps people notice how family roles and expectations shape current behavior and relationships, then practices new responses to alter those patterns. This approach is useful for family of origin issues, attachment questions, and repeating relationship cycles.

Another frequently used technique targets anxiety and stress by teaching concrete coping skills. Sessions include step-by-step strategies for managing worry, grounding during dissociation, and brief behavioral experiments to test different ways of responding to triggers. That style is helpful for depression, panic, and ongoing stress related to work or first responder roles.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. The therapist works collaboratively with the client to choose which techniques to try based on goals, current concerns, and personal preferences. Clients and the therapist review what helps and adapt methods over time.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time, allow shorter check-ins during a work break, and enable continued contact when life circumstances change.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

Antisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

10+ years

Listed in

Kansas

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address related to family patterns?

She works with adults on family of origin issues and how those early patterns affect current relationships and choices.

What is her general therapy style?

She uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques and focuses on practical skills, communication, and behavior changes in everyday life.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has ten years of experience working with adults on anxiety, depression, intimacy issues, and non-traditional relationship systems.

What are her credentials and location?

She is a KS LCMFT - Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist working in Kansas.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with international clients?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are session costs handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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