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Dr. Andrew Mendonsa

Dr. Andrew Mendonsa, CO Psychologist PSY.0005062, CA Psychologist PSY23208

California

Dr. Andrew Mendonsa - Psychologist for relationships and identity

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  • Family of origin issues
  • Anxiety and depression
  • Addictions and sexual behavior

About Andrew

Dr. Andrew Mendonsa is a Colorado and California psychologist with 22 years of experience. He works with adults on stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy concerns, substance and behavioral addictions, and issues related to identity and sexual expression. He lists family concerns and family of origin issues among his areas of focus, alongside parenting and career stress.

He takes a practical, goal-oriented approach. Sessions tend to look at current patterns that trace back to earlier family roles and expectations. He uses evidence-based methods to help people notice unhelpful patterns, try small changes, and track what does and does not work in daily life.

Andrew has worked across community mental health, addiction services, the criminal justice system, and with high-achieving professionals. That range informs how he frames problems and solutions - combining plain language with clear behavioral steps. His background includes work with marginalized groups and people from diverse sexual cultures and identities.

In sessions he will talk through what maintains a problem, whether it is avoidance, perfectionism, or problematic sexual behavior, and then create practical goals. He draws from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, cognitive behavioral techniques, attachment-focused ideas, and skills from dialectical behavior work to help with emotion regulation and relationships.

He offers care for people grappling with grief, chronic stress, caregiver strain, chronic illness interactions, and career transitions. Before booking, confirm current session formats and how they fit your schedule.

How his approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on clarifying personal values and learning to act in line with them despite uncomfortable thoughts or feelings. It can help when family patterns leave someone stuck in avoidance or self-criticism. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at links between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and offers concrete exercises to change unhelpful habits and improve mood and sleep. Attachment-Based Therapy attends to early relationship patterns and how they shape current closeness, trust, and conflict. It can be useful for people tracing relationship problems back to family of origin dynamics.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will work with the client to identify goals, try techniques, and adjust methods based on what fits the client's needs and preferences. That means sessions can shift emphasis over time between values work, skills practice, or exploring attachment patterns.

The original biography does not list specific session formats, so confirm which options are available before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit appointments around busy schedules, shorten check-ins when needed, and avoid travel for someone balancing caregiving or demanding work. Therapists and licensed professionals often adapt exercises and homework for remote sessions so progress can continue between meetings.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefSleeping disordersParenting issuesCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

22+ years

Listed in

California, Arizona, Arkansas, Colorado, Hawaii, Michigan, Nevada, New Mexico, Utah, Virginia

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he address?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, addictions, sexual expression concerns, grief, parenting strain, career stress, and family of origin matters.

What is his therapeutic style?

He describes a collaborative, goal-oriented approach that focuses on practical steps and measurable changes rather than indefinite therapy.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has 22 years of experience across community mental health, addiction services, criminal justice settings, and work with high-achieving professionals.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is listed as a Colorado Psychologist PSY.0005062 and a California Psychologist PSY23208, and he practices from California.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English, and he indicates he accepts international clients.

What session formats are offered?

The biography does not specify session formats; please confirm current options before booking.

How are fees and payment handled?

Costs vary with location and services; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

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Dr. Andrew MendonsaCO Psychologist PSY.0005062, CA Psychologist PSY23208

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