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Alexandria "Alex" Tan

Alexandria "Alex" Tan, LCSW

California

LCSW - Stress and relationship focused

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  • Stress and anxiety
  • Relationship patterns
  • Family of origin

About Alexandria

Alexandria "Alex" Tan is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) licensed in California with seven years of clinical experience. She works with stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem, depression, and compassion fatigue. Alex also pays attention to family of origin issues and attachment concerns when those patterns appear in adult life.

Alex uses practical, evidence-based methods to help people notice and change repeating patterns from their upbringing. Sessions focus on clear goals and everyday skills. Conversations look at how expectations from childhood affect current relationships and emotional responses.

Her background includes working across community settings with people facing a range of challenges. That experience informs a direct, flexible way of working rather than a one-size-fits-all method. Clients learn techniques for managing overwhelming feelings and for improving how they relate to others.

In sessions she helps people build better boundaries, address communication problems, and manage caregiver stress or compassion fatigue that can follow from helping roles. She also supports those coping with substance use concerns, control issues, or feelings of emptiness by focusing on practical steps and small changes.

People who work with Alex usually create a clear plan together for what to try between sessions. She asks concrete questions, helps name patterns tied to family of origin issues, and works on skills that can be used day to day. To begin, prospective clients complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session.

How therapeutic approaches are used in online sessions

CBT focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and trying new behaviors. It is useful for anxiety, depression, and stress when patterns from family life keep repeating. DBT skills teach specific ways to manage intense emotions and to improve communication in heated moments.

Finding the right mix of methods is part of the work together. The therapist will ask about goals, current struggles, and what has or hasn't helped before. Then she and the client decide which techniques to try and adjust them as needed in follow-up sessions.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. It also lets people practice skills in real-life settings between sessions while keeping scheduling flexible.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaYoung adult issues

Experience

7+ years

Listed in

California

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

Which concerns does she focus on?

She works with stress, anxiety, relationship problems, low self-esteem, depression, and compassion fatigue. Additional areas include attachment, blended family issues, and family of origin concerns.

What is her therapeutic approach like?

Her approach is integrative and practical, drawing on evidence-based techniques to set clear goals and build everyday skills. Sessions emphasize noticing patterns and trying concrete strategies between meetings.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has seven years of experience working in clinical settings. That background includes supporting people with a wide range of emotional and relationship challenges.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in California. Her practice is based in California.

Which languages does she use in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with clients outside the United States?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions scheduled and what about cost?

Session cost varies by location and is handled through a subscription that can be canceled at any time. Confirm pricing details when you sign up.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the See online therapy options button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling a first session. That process connects you to the initial appointment steps.

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