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Steven Smith

Steven Smith, LMFT

California

LMFT working with relationships and family patterns

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  • Anxiety and depression
  • Family of origin
  • Mindfulness and Gottman

About Steven

Steven Smith is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in California with 10 years of experience. He works with individuals and couples on common concerns such as anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, relationship strain, and substance use. He also supports people dealing with sexuality and gender questions, parenting stress, grief, and persistent patterns tied to family of origin issues.

Steven uses a straightforward, collaborative approach. He listens first, then helps people set practical goals they want to reach. Sessions focus on what is getting in the way of daily functioning and what can be changed in small steps. He does not position himself as someone who will fix a person or impose outcomes.

His style draws on client-centered techniques that prioritize the person's experience. He integrates existential ideas about values and choice to help people clarify what matters to them. He also uses mindfulness practices to reduce reactivity and the Gottman Method when couples want specific communication and relationship work.

Clients can expect clear talk about patterns that began in their family of origin and how those patterns show up now. Steven pays attention to how roles, expectations, and conflict from the past affect current relationships. He helps people recognize repeating cycles and practice different ways of relating.

Practical concerns such as coping with life changes, managing anger, or dealing with ADHD symptoms are addressed with concrete strategies. Sessions are collaborative and goal-oriented, with the therapist and client deciding together what to work on next.

Therapeutic approaches used and how online sessions work

Client-centered therapy emphasizes listening to the person's experience and supporting them to set their own goals. It helps when someone wants direct collaboration and practical problem solving rather than being told what to do. Existential therapy focuses on values, choice, and meaning. This approach can help people who are questioning their direction, dealing with role expectations from family, or trying to make sense of major life changes.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals and preferences with the client and together decide whether client-centered techniques, existential ideas, or Gottman-based relationship work fits best. The decision is collaborative and can change as needs evolve.

The original biography did not list specific session formats, so confirm available options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day, reduce travel time, and allow for shorter check-ins when needed. They also let people join from quieter surroundings and drop in between obligations more easily. Licensed professionals often use these practical benefits to help sessions fit into everyday life while focusing on the approaches described above.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseBipolar disorderDepression

Additional focus areas

Avoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomania

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyExistential TherapyGottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

10+ years

Listed in

California

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

Which concerns does he help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, relationship problems, depression, bipolar, addictions, grief, parenting strain, intimacy issues, and family of origin issues among others.

What is his therapeutic style?

He uses a client-centered approach and existential perspectives, focusing on listening, clarifying values, and setting practical goals with the client.

How much experience does he have?

He has 10 years of clinical experience working with individuals and couples in California.

What are his credentials and location?

He is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in California with the credential CA LMFT.

Does he work in other languages or with international clients?

Sessions are offered in English. He does not accept international clients.

Which session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How are costs handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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