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Dr. Deborah Bailey

Dr. Deborah Bailey, LMFT

Michigan

LMFT focusing on relationships and family patterns

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  • Relationship repair
  • Family of origin
  • CBT and ACT

About Deborah

Dr. Deborah Bailey is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in Michigan with 20 years as an LMFT and prior work as a Nationally Certified Family Life Educator. She works with adults on stress, anxiety, depression, relationship concerns, parenting challenges, and family of origin issues. She also addresses addiction, grief, sleep problems, anger, and attention concerns.

Dr. Bailey draws on several practical therapy methods to help people change patterns that have become painful. She uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to examine thoughts and behaviors that keep problems going. She applies Acceptance and Commitment Therapy ideas to help people clarify values and take steps that matter to them.

She also uses Client-Centered Therapy principles to keep sessions focused on the person in front of her. For couples work she brings in elements of the Gottman Method to improve communication and rebuild trust. Dialectical Behavior Therapy skills are used when emotional regulation and distress tolerance are needed.

Her background includes long experience with parent-child relationships, blended family issues, caregiver stress, and aging and geriatric concerns. She has worked with people facing chronic illness, co-morbid conditions, and the overlap of mood issues such as bipolar disorder with everyday stressors.

Practical problems such as commitment worries, codependency, abandonment fears, and family communication patterns are part of her day-to-day focus. People who choose her often want concrete tools for handling difficult conversations, improving intimacy, or coping with life changes.

To begin, she asks people to describe current struggles and priorities. Sessions move between exploring relationship patterns, practicing specific skills, and setting manageable goals for change.

How Dr. Bailey’s approaches translate to online sessions

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify what matters to them and take committed steps toward those values. Online work with ACT usually involves identifying values, noticing avoidance, and practicing small behavior changes between sessions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on the links between thoughts, feelings, and actions. In virtual sessions CBT typically uses structured conversations, brief exercises, and homework to try new ways of responding to stressors. The Gottman Method brings concrete communication skills for couples, such as turning toward bids, managing conflict, and rebuilding trust; these skills can be practiced and reviewed during remote meetings.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will discuss goals, try methods that fit the situation, and adjust strategies based on what helps. Clients and the therapist work together to decide whether to emphasize skills training, values work, or communication practice.

Session format options are not specified in the biography, so please confirm current session types before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit appointments into a workday, reduce travel time, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and enable use of screen-shared tools or worksheets during the meeting. Licensed professionals often find that many of the same techniques used in person translate well to virtual sessions, while planning practical steps to carry work into everyday life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesParenting issuesDepressionCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSelf-harmSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Listed in

Michigan

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

Which concerns does she address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and parenting issues, family of origin concerns, addictions, grief, sleep problems, anger, ADHD, and related matters.

What is her therapeutic style?

She combines practical approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Client-Centered methods, DBT skills, and the Gottman Method to address patterns and skills.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 20 years as a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and prior experience as a Nationally Certified Family Life Educator.

Where is she licensed and located?

She is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in Michigan.

In which language are sessions offered?

Sessions are offered in English only.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How is cost handled?

Cost varies with location; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started?

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