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Adalheidur (Ally) Dagbjartsdottir

Adalheidur (Ally) Dagbjartsdottir, LCSW, LSCSW

Kansas

Licensed clinical social worker - family patterns and relationships

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  • Family of origin issues
  • CBT and DBT tools
  • English and Icelandic

About Adalheidur

Adalheidur (Ally) Dagbjartsdottir is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and Licensed Specialist Clinical Social Worker (LSCSW) practicing in Kansas with five years of experience as a therapist. She works with adults coping with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship concerns, parenting struggles, and family of origin issues. She also supports people dealing with ADHD, grief, compassion fatigue, and intimacy-related questions. Sessions are offered in English and Icelandic.

Ally describes therapy as a collaborative process. She focuses on helping people notice how patterns from their upbringing affect present life. In sessions she helps clients name roles, boundaries, and expectations that repeat from childhood. She works with people who want clearer communication, steadier emotions, and better self-esteem.

Her background includes social work experience across child and family settings. That work informs a perspective that looks at relationships and systems as well as individual choices. She draws on practical skills rather than jargon, and she aims to help people find small, usable changes.

Ally uses a mix of approaches to fit a person’s needs. She often incorporates client-centered listening, cognitive-behavioral tools for thinking and behavior change, and DBT skills for managing intense emotions. Mindfulness and motivational interviewing also inform how she helps people set goals and practice new habits.

People who come for family of origin issues often leave with clearer boundaries and more self-understanding. She also works with concerns related to sexuality, kink, autism spectrum differences, blended family dynamics, and chronic illness. Her practice combines practical strategies with steady, straightforward discussion.

How her approaches guide online work

Client-centered therapy emphasizes listening and reflecting back what matters to the client. It helps people feel heard, identify priorities, and decide what to work on next. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors with clear exercises and practice. It is useful for anxiety, depression, and repetitive family-of-origin patterns that show up as automatic responses.

Finding the right approach is part of the collaborative process. The therapist will discuss goals and preferences and then try methods that fit those aims. Expect regular check-ins about what is helping and adjustments when a different tool would be more useful.

Confirm the current session formats before booking, since specific online options are not listed here. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life - for example, shorter check-ins during a lunch break, sessions without needing travel time, or audio-only meetings when bandwidth is limited. These practical benefits can help people practice new skills in the everyday contexts where patterns usually occur.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)EmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSelf-harmSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Listed in

Missouri, Kansas

Languages

English, Icelandic

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with related to family patterns?

She works with stress, anxiety, relationship struggles, family of origin issues, parenting questions, and related concerns such as self-esteem and communication problems.

What style of therapy does she use?

Her work blends client-centered listening with cognitive behavioral techniques and dialectical behavior therapy skills. Mindfulness and motivational interviewing also inform sessions.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has five years of experience as a therapist, plus additional social work background prior to that work in child and family settings.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She holds LCSW and LSCSW credentials with licensing in Missouri (MO LCSW) and Kansas (KS LSCSW), and she practices in Kansas.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Icelandic.

Can people outside the country book with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What is the first step to start working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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Adalheidur (Ally) DagbjartsdottirLCSW, LSCSW

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