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Victoria Laneri

Victoria Laneri, LMHC

New York

New York LMHC - family of origin, addictions

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  • Stress and anxiety
  • Addictions support
  • Attachment concerns

About Victoria

Victoria Laneri is a New York Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) with 25 years of experience. She works with stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, depression, and people coping with life changes. Her practice also addresses family of origin issues and related concerns such as attachment and communication problems.

She focuses on clear conversation and practical steps. Sessions involve talking through current difficulties and tracing how earlier family roles and expectations still affect daily life. She pays attention to patterns like codependency, control issues, and feelings of emptiness that often tie back to upbringing.

Victoria’s approach is straightforward and evidence-informed. She helps people identify unhelpful habits and tries different ways to change them. When addiction or co-morbid conditions are present, she works with clients to set manageable goals and build steadier coping skills.

People often bring issues about abandonment, adoption or foster care, aging concerns, or first responder stress. Victoria integrates attention to attachment and family of origin stories when those topics are relevant. She uses conversation and practical exercises to help people notice patterns and try alternatives.

Her practice is based in New York and she conducts sessions in English. To begin, prospective clients complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule a first session. The subscription-based fee varies with location and can be canceled at any time.

How evidence-based approaches are used in online sessions

Victoria works with evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on practical change. One common approach emphasizes identifying unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns and testing new responses in daily life. This helps with anxiety, depression, and the decision-making struggles that can follow family of origin issues.

Another approach centers on attachment and relational patterns. Sessions look at early family roles and expectations, and then explore alternatives for communication and boundaries. This can be useful for people dealing with codependency, abandonment concerns, or difficulty with intimacy.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist collaborates with each person to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences. Together they review what has helped in the past and what to try next, adjusting as progress is observed.

Practical benefits of working online include fitting sessions into a busy schedule and reducing commute time. Online work can make it easier to plan brief check-ins or regular weekly meetings around work or family commitments. Because session formats are not specified in the original biography, confirm current online options before booking to know which meeting types are offered.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)

Experience

25+ years

Listed in

New York

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she address?

She works with stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, depression, and coping with life changes. Additional concerns include family of origin issues, attachment problems, and communication difficulties.

What is her therapeutic style?

She uses direct conversation and evidence-based techniques to identify patterns and try practical changes. Sessions focus on discussing current problems and linking them to family-of-origin patterns when relevant.

How much experience does she have?

She has 25 years of professional work experience as a clinician in mental health settings.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) licensed in New York and practices from that location.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with international clients?

She does accept international clients. Confirm any time zone or scheduling details before booking.

How are sessions billed and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time. Confirm current fees during the intake process.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session to get started.

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