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Deborah  Schnitzer

Deborah Schnitzer , LCSW

New York

LCSW - Relationships and family concerns

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  • Attachment focused
  • Cognitive behavioral tools
  • Emotion-focused work

About Deborah

Deborah Schnitzer is an LCSW (Licensed Clinical Social Worker) based in New York with 21 years of practice. She works with relationship concerns, family issues, parenting stress, trauma and abuse, anxiety, depression, grief, and career challenges. Deborah also lists family of origin issues among her focus areas.

She keeps sessions straightforward and practical. She teaches tools from several methods and shows clients how to use them in daily life. She says there are no magic wands, but she guides people through change with direct feedback and clear skills practice.

Deborah draws on approaches that emphasize emotions, patterns from early attachments, and concrete skill building. That can mean looking at how family roles shaped expectations, practicing ways to manage strong feelings, or changing thoughts and behaviors that keep problems going. The focus is on what the person wants to change now and what steps help them get there.

Her background includes many years in clinical work and teaching as an adjunct instructor at graduate and undergraduate levels. That mix of classroom and clinical experience shapes how she explains concepts and demonstrates tools in session.

People who work with Deborah can expect a frank, nonjudgmental style. She treats clients with respect and invites them to use the clinician's methods as practical tools. Before a first session she asks people to consider what they hope to accomplish and which family patterns they want to address.

How Deborah’s approaches translate to online work

Deborah often combines attachment-based work with cognitive behavioral techniques and emotion-focused methods. Attachment-based work looks at early relationship patterns and how they show up now, which can help with intimacy-related issues and family of origin concerns. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) breaks down thoughts and behaviors into specific steps so people can experiment with different responses and reduce distress. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) helps people name and track strong feelings and practice new ways of expressing them to change relationship patterns.

Choosing the right approach is collaborative. Deborah reviews goals and preferences with each client and together they try methods that fit those aims. She will suggest ways of working based on what a person wants to change and what techniques seem most useful in early sessions.

Confirm what session formats are currently offered before booking. Online options can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, allow brief check-ins, or avoid travel time. Different formats also let people choose quieter or simpler setups, for example a shorter phone check-in if bandwidth or screen use is limited. Ask about available formats when you complete the matching questionnaire so scheduling matches your day-to-day needs.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseParenting issuesCoping with life changes

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

21+ years

Listed in

New York

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What problems does she address related to family patterns?

She works with family of origin issues, relationship problems, parenting stress, grief, anxiety, depression, and related concerns listed in her specialties.

How does she approach therapy with clients?

She uses a mix of methods including attachment-based work, client-centered conversation, CBT, DBT, and EFT to teach practical skills and explore emotional patterns.

How much experience does she have?

Deborah has 21 years of experience as a clinician and has also taught as an adjunct instructor at multiple academic levels.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is an LCSW licensed in New York and practices from that location.

Does she work with clients who speak other languages?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She accepts international clients according to the information provided.

How are sessions priced?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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Deborah Schnitzer LCSW

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