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Kelli Trueblood-Graves

Kelli Trueblood-Graves, LCSW

New Mexico

LCSW in New Mexico - family and relationship patterns

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  • Addictions
  • Family of origin
  • Attachment-based work

About Kelli

Kelli Trueblood-Graves is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in New Mexico with 10 years of experience. She works with adults on concerns such as addictions, LGBT-related issues, trauma and abuse, parenting questions, stress, anxiety, relationship and family concerns, grief, intimacy-related issues, and problems with eating, sleeping, anger, and self-esteem.

She starts by listening to each person’s story and treating them as the expert on their life. Sessions focus on practical steps and clearer understanding of how past patterns show up now. Kelli uses straightforward conversation and collaborative planning to address immediate problems and longer-term patterns.

Her background includes several therapeutic approaches that shape how she works in session. She uses attachment-based ideas to look at early relationship patterns and how they shape current closeness and trust. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) helps people change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors with doable exercises between sessions. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) skills are used for emotion regulation and coping when stress or strong feelings feel overwhelming.

Kelli also draws on client-centered practice and motivational interviewing to support people making changes at their own pace. These methods are practical and goal-focused while keeping the person’s priorities central. She pays attention to adoption and foster care experiences, blended family dynamics, body image and codependency when these are part of a person’s story.

People who want to look at patterns coming from family of origin issues or past relationships will find a focus on how early roles and expectations still shape daily life. To start, visitors complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a first session through the site.

How approaches guide online sessions

Attachment-based work looks at early relationship patterns and how those patterns influence current trust and closeness. In online sessions this approach is used to talk through how family roles and expectations shaped present behavior and feelings. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing small behavior changes. Online CBT often includes homework and brief exercises to practice between meetings.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with the client to decide which methods make the most sense based on goals, needs, and personal preferences. That choice can shift as people try things and notice what helps most.

The biography does not specify session formats, so confirm current options before booking. Many people find online sessions useful because they can fit meetings into a busy day, reduce travel time, and keep check-ins short when needed. Others appreciate being able to use video or audio to focus on conversation without commuting. Discuss format preferences during the initial scheduling so sessions can be planned around what works best.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSexual assault and abuseSexualityWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Motivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Listed in

New Mexico

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she work with?

She works with addictions, LGBT-related issues, trauma and abuse, parenting concerns, stress and anxiety, relationship and family issues, grief, intimacy-related problems, eating and sleeping difficulties, anger, and self-esteem.

How would you describe her therapy style?

She uses a blend of client-centered listening with practical tools. Conversations focus on understanding patterns and trying small, doable changes between sessions.

What is her background and experience?

She holds an LCSW and brings 10 years of professional experience working with adults on a range of concerns including addiction and trauma-related issues.

Where is she licensed and practicing?

She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) licensed in New Mexico and practices with people based in that state.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

Session formats are not listed in the biography; confirm current session options before booking to know how sessions are held.

How does cost and billing work?

Cost varies with location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

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