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Alexa St. Martin

Alexa St. Martin, LCSW

Hawaii

Licensed Clinical Social Worker - Relationships and Family

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  • Attachment-based work
  • Narrative and Jungian
  • Gottman-informed methods

About Alexa

Alexa St. Martin is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) practicing in Hawaii with three years of experience. She works with adults on relationship concerns, family of origin issues, and a range of emotional struggles such as anxiety, depression, and grief. She also supports people exploring sexuality, gender questions, and non-monogamous relationship styles.

St. Martin draws on several therapy approaches to help people name patterns that started in childhood and still show up now. Sessions focus on understanding attachment and family roles, talking through relationship dynamics, and looking at personal narratives that shape behavior. She uses client-centered listening alongside techniques informed by attachment theory and relationship work.

People can expect conversations about communication, boundaries, and intimacy. Therapy can include looking at how early family expectations affect current choices. Work may address abandonment, shame, body image, and navigating complex sexual or relationship identities.

St. Martin integrates narrative and Jungian ideas when helpful, including exploring themes and stories people carry about themselves. With Gottman-informed methods she can help couples and partners practice clearer communication and repair patterns of conflict.

Her background includes work across Hawaii in different clinical settings with youth, couples, and families. That experience informs a practical style that aims to clarify what has been happening and what actions people might try next. Prospective clients should confirm current session options before booking.

How her approaches translate to online work

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early relationships shape current patterns. It looks at closeness, trust, and how people relate to partners and family members. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes listening and reflecting what a person says so they can discover their own priorities and next steps. The Gottman Method offers practical communication exercises and conflict repair strategies that can be practiced between sessions.

Choosing the right approach is part of the process. She will talk with each person about goals and preferences and together decide which methods to try. That collaborative planning helps match attachment work, narrative exploration, or Gottman-informed skills to the person's immediate concerns.

Confirm the available session formats before booking, as those options are not listed here. Online work can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow short check-ins when needed. Some formats may be better for exercises that involve both partners, while others suit single-person sessions or brief coaching-style check-ins. Discussing session length and pacing at the first meeting helps align practical needs with therapeutic goals.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issues

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFertility issuesGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSexual assault and abuseSexualityWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyGottman MethodJungian TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

3+ years

Listed in

Hawaii

Languages

English

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she commonly address?

She focuses on relationship issues, family of origin problems, and emotional concerns like anxiety, depression, grief, and stress.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

She blends client-centered listening with attachment-focused and narrative approaches to help people name patterns and consider new options.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She holds an LCSW and has three years of post-qualification experience working in Hawaii clinical settings.

Where is she based and licensed?

She is based in Hawaii and practices as an LCSW in that state.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with international clients?

She is not currently accepting international clients.

What are the session formats and cost structure?

Session formats should be confirmed before booking. Cost varies by location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Begin by selecting the See online therapy options button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling a first session.

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